This is my wifey era.
Alexa play "When It Comes to You by Fridayy
I don’t know who my husband will be, but I feel like I’ve either met him or he’s really close. While I wait, I’m focused on becoming the wife God has called me to be. Too often, we want the title of “wife” without embodying the qualities of one.
The Bible says,
“He who finds a wife finds a good thing,”
not a girlfriend. I’ve spent enough time being the doting girlfriend. In this new season, I’m only dating with purpose—no games, no wasting my time. I’m looking for someone intentional, who sees me as his future wife.
Heartbreak had me down for a while, but my faith, self-confidence, and resilience have prepared me for what’s next. I’m not saying I’ll be walking down the aisle this year, but I am ready to embrace engagement, start building a future, and plan a life with my partner.
Honestly, I’m here for a two-year engagement.
Let’s normalize taking the time to fully enjoy that season—celebrating the commitment, diving into pre-marital counseling, and planning a wedding that reflects the love and life we’re building together.
As I work on myself—my attitude, my patience, my willingness to prioritize a home-centered life—I pray that God is working on my future husband too.
I want a man who desires to be a husband, someone who has done the inner work and is excited about the role.
In the past, I’ve dated good men, but some were too passive for me—too laid-back, too uninspired, and often doing things out of obligation instead of genuine care. That won’t work for me anymore.
My love language is acts of service, and I know the right man will take joy in making my life easier and loving me in ways that feel natural to him.
In return, I’ll feel safe enough to fully submit, love, and honor him with all my heart.
I’ve given my big heart to the wrong people before, but this time, I’m trusting God to guard it and guide me to the man He’s prepared for me. Thank you, God, in advance for my husband, for shaping us both to fit perfectly together. I promise to keep You at the center of our marriage, always leading us as we walk side by side in love and unity.
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